Another Day More Gains

Cate: Cate calling Goldilocks, come in, over

Goldilocks: Goldilocks here, Cate, so glad to hear from you. Go ahead, over

Cate: Interesting week. Since I am on a positive streak I'll start there. More and more I just want to sit down on my butt and release and release and release. I'm not concerned about the economy, the politics anything going on in the world. I want it to "evaporate and dissolve as Larry says. I feel so good when I release and my day is so harmonious. Yesterday I shared the method with old Mr. Kahlo who seemed genuinely interested. Of course I could tell the clerk at CVS was grateful for my sharing as well. Love is wonderful.

Goldilocks: That's great, Cate

Cate: I am so motivated to release and achieve my goals. Larry's "Butt System" is awesome and he makes it so easy. What I'd really like is for George to go with me to Camp Allen in December and to have the funds to come in that make it possible.

Goldilocks: Sounds like a plan. So, do you believe it's possible, or in other words is that an "I can" feeling?

Cate: Not sure yet. Haven't really had time to sit down and do the attachments and aversions; to let it all go. (pause) Wouldn't be nice if I got a million dollars from that scratch and win game at Kahlo Jeep?

Goldilocks: Do you think you can?

Cate: I have this fear coming up. But I'm going to release and ask Beingness for the numbers before I do it.

Goldilocks: Great insight, Cate. It should be interesting. (pause) Huh, how are you and your sister getting on?

Cate: Not well. Personally, I just want to avoid her. I know she's hurting and I'd like to do something, but she rejects everything I say.

Goldilocks: I take it, you're feeling rejected?

Cate: You could say that, yes.

Goldilocks: May I gently remind you that you can't be rejected unless you're doing the rejecting. In other words, you are the rejector.

Cate: (sullenly) It sure doesn't feel that way. I can't seem to wrap my mind around that concept.

Goldilocks: Neither can you figure it out either, no matter how much you try. (pause) End of lesson. So, what are you going to do?

Cate: Send her love and approval mentally and hope she changes.

Goldilocks: And is it okay if she never changes?

Cate: You're starting to sound like James.

Goldilocks: Never mind the distractions, I'm helping you sort through this. Well, could you?

Cate: Personally, she could disappear from my life and we'd both be better off.

Goldilocks: I take it she intimidates you.

Cate: (sarcastically) What an amazing feat of mind reading, what gave you a clue?

Goldilocks: Because you're feelings are about to choke you or smother you. You're not feeling very loving toward her are you?

Cate: No, I'm not. I have Mom's phobia: tread lightly around volatile people. I don't enjoy being told off. I'm just looking out for #1. Call it a survival tactic.

Goldilocks: Sounds like you have a better understanding of where your mother is coming from with your sister-in-law. Not as judgemental perhaps?

Cate: That too. Let's face it, Goldilocks, the Ego has me prisoner, yet again.

Goldilocks: You know what to do without me telling you.

Cate: Like I said before, I need more time to release. Make that quality time. Hopefully, this weekend.

Goldilocks: I'm glad you at least reached out for help yesterday when I wasn't available.

Cate: I need to do that more often. I don't seem to discriminate too well, or easily.

Goldilocks: Can't see the forest for the trees? Or, perhaps, I should say can't see freedom for all the garbage lying around.

Cate: (half grinning) Nope, I'm too busy beating myself black and blue. I do hope
George goes to Camp Allen with me. It would be so awesome. Of course I need the money as well or it's a "no go."

Goldilocks: Let me ask you something. Would you go if George wanted to go even if you didn't have the money?

Cate: Absolutely, that is one reason I would be willing to go further into debt for. As far as my perfect attendance at work, that is a no brainer. If George wants to go, wild horses or credit card debt couldn't keep me away.

Goldilocks (smiling) Sounds like you've got your head on straight and your priorities sorted out. Anything else I can help you with?

Cate: (shakes head) No, Goldilocks, thanks for listening and for being there for me.

Goldilocks: Any time. Talk to you next week. Goldilocks out.

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